Dale Thompson

Hello world, my name is Dale, I'm a 56 year old trucker & avid golfer. I'm married to my wife Jackie, just coming up to 30 years. We have 3 awesome grown up kids and 2 beautiful grandchildren. I passed my class 1 HGV licence back in 1993 whilst on tour of duty in Northern Ireland, I joined the Army in 1989 and served just over 23 years for Queen and Country, in that time I spent 10 years in Germany, 4 years in NI, 2 years in Canada and the rest within the UK, I completed a tour in NI and 2 tours of Iraq. I eventually took redundancy from the Army in 2012, for my resettlement I attended and gain my diploma with the European Golf Teachers Federation at the Darenth Valley GC in Kent in Sept 2012. Getting a job as a golf instructor in the UK is very difficult, especially when you have no experience, so I took my first real job as a truck driver, I had many jobs on the agency but eventually settled down with XPO, they have recently changed name to GXO, I have been employed with the company now for over 10 years, however my heart would still like to teach golf. I have recently started to upload videos to my YouTube channel and my website has been released. My passion has always been golf and that is what I'm now building my online business around.

Gadgets to share by!

Our world as a Truck driver would be a boring job if it wasn't for the fact that we have so many gadgets to take on our journey, here are some of the most important gadgets and a must for when you're out and about in your 18 wheeler:

1.     The trusty mobile phone, essential for calling the office if any problems arise or just simply to make a call to the loved one or a friend.

2.     Probably the most important gadget, when it comes to the job, the HGV SatNav, the one gadget that could keep you in a job.

3.     The laptop, not all Truckers drive trucks for a living, if you have an online business, the quiet of the cab is the ideal place to catch up on how your business is doing.

4.     The tablet, this gadget is a good enough substitute for a laptop and cheaper.

5.     The electric kettle, not all Truckers take a flask of tea or coffee, some prefer to make a fresh brew (a cup or mug is a must).

6.     The in cab fan, on those hot summer days and nights the fan is quite a comfort from the heat.

These are but a few items and trust me there's a lot more I could mention, however, not one of these items could charge or work without the help of the USB cable or the adaptor that slots into the 12/24 volt socket. I had a problem trying to find the right adaptor to use in the cab, as like most of us we have quite a few gadgets plugged in at the same time, then my mate showed me this cool adaptor from Amazon.

It's been one of the best products I've purchased, having the cool light display makes it easy for plugging in other adaptors, so you're not fumbling about when it's dark, ideal for night shift workers, it also has a 10 amp fuse to prevent any overheating or overcharging, complete with 2 USB connecters and 3 adaptor connections, a perfect addition to any Truckers bag.

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Life as a Trucker

There's quite a few categories of Truckers, the main ones I'm talking about are the guys and gals that drive the units (or big rigs, if you drive in the US) and long trailers, proper Truckers, (you could also include draw bar Truckers) pulling tons and tons of products, ranging from........well anything that you can think of, along the main arteries of the country, namely the motorways and for the Truckers across the pond, the highways.

Now within this category of Trucker, you have 2 main drivers, your daily or nightly driver (core or agency) that usually works a 12, sometimes 15 hour shifts, then you have the Trampers (Sleeper Drivers for the US), these are the guys that stay out on the road all week, then take their weekend off at home, catching up on sleep, which we never tend to do. Now most of the Trampers that I've come across in the past are fairly old guys, that are sometimes single, have lost a loved one and near to retirement or just enjoy doing it because the money is good.

Now there is a commonality for both sets of drivers, we are all Brothers of the Haulage trade, most of our time is spent alone (unless you are double manned), with just our thoughts, music, our favourite radio station or streaming movies on our laptops, mobile device and tablets when we are on our break, even though, and many of you have seen this, the odd foreign driver is watching a movie on his laptop while he is driving, you tend not to miss this kind of thing as he passes you and his cab is lit up by the glare of the laptop, these are the guys that should be taken off the road and sent back to the country they came from, never to drive on our roads again, it is dangerous and irresponsible.

I passed my class 1 C+E back in 1993, on my first tour of duty in Northern Ireland, courtesy of the British Army, so I have quite a few years driving experience under my belt, I've driven in Germany, Canada, Cyprus but mainly within the UK, I've pulled most trailers that you can think of, from low loader to your standard curtain sider plus the odd 50 footer. I've done roping and sheeting, even though the ratchet strap as been around since the 1900's, it's great to know that these old load securing methods can still be used in todays industry.

Fun fact, my father taught me how to tie a truckers knot even before I drove a truck, he took pleasure showing me all the knots he knew, the half hitch, full hitch, bosuns hitch, the list was endless, goes back to his days as a Merchant Mariner, God rest his soul. 

Now, to most of the road users (namely car drivers) think we are a menace on the roads, this is not the case in the US, they actually celebrate Truckers, this is a few lines taken from the American Truckers Association: 

National Truck Driver Appreciation Week is an annual, nationwide celebration and cornerstone program launched by the American Trucking Associations in 1988 to recognize and honor the vital contributions of truck drivers to our daily lives and the economy. 

Now I know we have Trucking festivals all across the country and Driver of the Year is competed for with most companies but we are not honoured or recognized, the only time we ever got any kind of thanks or recognition was during the Pandemic. Truckers became essential workers, I mean, we couldn't work from home and who else was going to keep the country and economy alive. So if your not a truck driver and you are reading this, please spare a thought for all Truckers, because without us the country would literally come to a stand still and if you think real hard there is not one thing produced today that is not transported by Truckers on our roads, if you can think of anything, please leave a comment and as an after thought, please understand that we are not driving a machine that can pull a away as fast as a car, most trucks on the road have a speed restriction, so flashing your lights at us as we are in the middle of over taking another truck, is not going to make us go any faster, so please be patient.

The long and short of it all is that Trucking is a thankless job, long hours, sometimes lack of sleep, especially after a long shift, strapping the load can be a pain, the elements always seem to be against you. The road system in the UK is just getting worse, with long delays, roadworks on nearly every stretch of the motorway, accidents nearly every day, causing further delays not knowing if what has happened ahead is not only affecting your life but someone else's life, especially if there has been a fatality. We have rules and regulations to adhere to, most of which is time orientated causing infringement after infringement, hoping that the day never comes when you are stopped by the Traffic Authorities which could potentially cost you hundreds in fines.

To me, this job as a Trucker, is the most stress free job I've ever had, I have my own office, with no one there to tell me to turn the heating up or down, I also have a bunk in my office, great for working the night shift when you're stuck on the loading bay for a few hours, just get your head down and set your alarm every 30 mins, you tend to know which companies are fast at tipping or mega slow, I can take my break whenever I want plus the layby café is always a welcome sight if I want something substantial, you can't beat a full English during your shift!!

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My Society Win

I must firstly say that being a golfer for over 20 years has been one of the best sporting activities I've enjoyed, I played football for best part of my life, ever since I could kick a ball really. However a very bad knee injury caused me to think about taking on another sport.

Golf and all that is associated with the sport ticked all the boxes for me, the skill, integrity, patience, honesty, sportsmanship, the frustration factor, the fact that we can play the exact same shot as the Pros do (maybe not as good), made the decision for me to have golf in my life easy.

Tyrefort golf society as been around since 2011, I was introduced to the society in 2017, I was playing off a 7 handicap then, I won the shield in that same year, a few of the guys jokingly told me that I cannot play in the society anymore. I then won it for the 2020/21 season (due to COVID) and I've won the shield again for this season.

The season is played over 8 games, starting in March and ending in October, it is based on a points system, 10 points for a win, 8 for second, 7 for third and so on. 1st place is cut 3 off their handicap, 2nd gets cut 2 and 3rd is cut by 1 stroke. This can get quite difficult for a single handicap player as you can well imagine, it also gives the other players a chance to win and get some serious points up.

The 2023 season was different for me as I had a very different mind set, win at least one of the meetings and then, if I came in the top 5, I would have a good chance of winning the shield again, my strategy paid off as the shield is now sitting proudly with my other golfing trophy's, the picture was taken on our last meeting at the Hatchford Brook GC, right by Birmingham Airport, the shield was presented to me by one of the founders of the society, Mr Bob Hateley.    

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The Golfing Widow – by Jackie

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Hello my names Jackie, I'm the one in the picture with the finger growing out of my head lol and I am a Golf Widow. Thought that was a good place to start.

Life as a GW well what can I say, I could compare it to playing Golf of ‘course’ the fact that sometimes he ‘drives’ me mad with Golf, Golf, Golf but somehow I manage to ‘putt’ up with it. Not all bad I get to do the housework on Saturdays while he is out ‘playing a round’, I am so lucky said no one ever :-). However all joking aside it can be frustrating not having a free weekend to do things together because Golf is Life can be challenging, feeling like it is unfair of me to take away his weekly game after he works so hard during the week, when I know it is what he loves doing. But what about me?

I started booking us getaways to different courses so I could have a change of scenery and the Golf could continue for him but that didn’t last long as my pennies didn’t stretch to doing it regularly. We did however have a couple of memorable trips to St Andrews and Celtic Manor scenery was breath-taking and I enjoyed a well earned break.

It sometimes feels to me that I am not as important in his world as Golf is but then he will surprise me with a gift or a meal out and let’s me know how much he appreciates me which obviously has the desired effect. So guys and gals when you are playing golf, watching golf, talking golf and breathing golf take some time to think about the person in your life who supports you and your obsession and is always there for you to listen to your highs and lows even though we don’t necessarily understand them, we share them because we care.

Show your appreciation once in a while it makes the world of difference to those of us that don’t share the love of the game but love the golfer.

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All about the greens

There is an art to reading greens, it usually starts from about 50 yards out, or if you're a Pro, the green layout booklet, showing the gradients, pin positions, hazards, sprinklers and so on.

We as amateurs do not get the luxury of a green layout book, perhaps a birdie book showing the hole layout and maybe a picture of the green, showing the undulations with direction arrows.

The most important action you must carry out prior to making any putt is to gauge the pace of the greens, this can only be done on the practice green, so take 5-10 mins getting used to the pace, drop a few balls on the green at different lengths and putt to the edge of the green. When the ball rests on the cut line of the fringe and green, you have the pace.

So here are a few helpful tips to reading greens:

  1. Always walk to the green with your head up, taking in all that you see, especially if the green has been cut that day showing the cut of the grain.

  2. Pace out the length of your putt before you mark the ball, take into account any slopes between your ball and the hole.

  3. Check that there as been very little traffic around the hole and on your line, if so repair.

  4. Clear any debris that may be on your line, this could take a while if you're looking at a long putt.

  5. Stand behind the ball and focus on a basic line.

  6. Crouch behind the ball and focus on the true line.

  7. If you have time (we as amateurs very seldom do this) take a look from behind the hole and both sides.

  8. Crouch behind the ball again and focus on a gate, 2 marks on your given line, that the ball will pass through before it starts to break.

  9. Make a good solid putt, ensuring the ball passes between the 2 marks on your line.

Reading greens is an art form, but when you master it and the pace of the greens, those 20 footers will seems like tap in's.

Also, depending on the time of day the grain could also play a massive part on the roll of the ball, NEVER FORGET THE GRAIN!

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PTSD

PTSD & C-PTSD

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder or Disease, whichever one you use they are still the same.

I have had PTSD since Sep 2021, when I actually witnessed an incident that affected me emotionally, even though I have served as soldier for best part of 23 years. I have seen things that would make the hairs on the back of your neck stand on end but I have not physically seen an incident that caused the death of a human being.

This all changed in 2021 and subsequently a programme I watch sparked off emotions in me that I have not felt since I witnessed the incident.

Now the definition of PTSD is that anyone can be exposed to trauma, an episode that has caused fear, helplessness or horror in responses to the threat of injury or death.

C-PTSD (complex-PTSD) is the emotions and feelings associated with PTSD that are difficult to understand and control.

Now when we associate PTSD we think mainly about the front line soldiers fighting the enemy, usually in CQB (close quarter battle), this is not always the case. I shot this video for my YouTube channel to get a message across to my audience.

If you know anyone in your life, that you care very much for that is suffering from this hidden disorder, please click the following link to PTSD-UK.

 

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