Dale Thompson

Hello world, my name is Dale, I'm a 56 year old trucker & avid golfer. I'm married to my wife Jackie, just coming up to 30 years. We have 3 awesome grown up kids and 2 beautiful grandchildren. I passed my class 1 HGV licence back in 1993 whilst on tour of duty in Northern Ireland, I joined the Army in 1989 and served just over 23 years for Queen and Country, in that time I spent 10 years in Germany, 4 years in NI, 2 years in Canada and the rest within the UK, I completed a tour in NI and 2 tours of Iraq. I eventually took redundancy from the Army in 2012, for my resettlement I attended and gain my diploma with the European Golf Teachers Federation at the Darenth Valley GC in Kent in Sept 2012. Getting a job as a golf instructor in the UK is very difficult, especially when you have no experience, so I took my first real job as a truck driver, I had many jobs on the agency but eventually settled down with XPO, they have recently changed name to GXO, I have been employed with the company now for over 10 years, however my heart would still like to teach golf. I have recently started to upload videos to my YouTube channel and my website has been released. My passion has always been golf and that is what I'm now building my online business around.

A Brief History of Golf

Have you ever wondered about the origins of the game we all love? Golf, a sport steeped in tradition and elegance, has a fascinating history that dates back centuries. Today, let's take a stroll down memory lane and explore the evolution of golf from its humble beginnings to the modern game we enjoy today.

The Beginnings of Golf

The origins of golf are often debated, but it is widely believed to have started in Scotland in the 15th century. The game was initially played on links land, which are coastal areas characterized by sandy soil and dunes. The first recorded mention of golf was in a 1457 Act of the Scottish Parliament, which banned the game because it was seen as a distraction from archery practice, a vital skill for national defense at the time.

Have you ever wondered about the origins of the game we all love? Golf, a sport steeped in tradition and elegance, has a fascinating history that dates back centuries. Today, let's take a stroll down memory lane and explore the evolution of golf from its humble beginnings to the modern game we enjoy today.

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Golf's Global Expansion

As the game of golf gained popularity, it spread beyond the borders of Scotland. By the 18th century, golf had reached England, and soon after, it made its way to the United States. The establishment of the Royal and Ancient Golf Club of St Andrews in 1754 played a significant role in formalizing the rules of the game, which helped standardize golf across the world.

In the 19th century, golf courses began to appear in many countries, and the invention of the gutta-percha ball revolutionized the game, making it more accessible and popular.

This period also saw the creation of the first golf clubs outside of Britain, spreading the game to North America, Australia, and beyond.

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Modern Golf

Today, golf is a global sport enjoyed by millions. The introduction of televised tournaments and iconic events like The Masters and The Open Championship have elevated golf to new heights, attracting fans and players from all corners of the globe.

Whether you're a seasoned golfer or a newcomer to the sport, understanding the history of golf can deepen your appreciation for the game.

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A History of Training and Physical Fitness

How humans went from chasing woolly mammoths to hitting the gym

Once upon a time, being fit meant the difference between a full belly and a growling stomach. Our ancestors were natural-born athletes, chasing down woolly mammoths and training to be Spartan warriors. It was a time when yoga was a spiritual as well as physical practice, and survival of the fittest was more than just a saying.

As civilizations rose and fell, so did our workout routines. From the jousting knights of the Middle Ages to the VHS tape workouts of the 90s, the history of our physical culture is a wild ride.

A brief ancient history of physical culture

From cavemen to Confucius, we've come a long way. Let’s dive into the fascinating world of exercise history and see how those old-school moves crept their way into our modern fitness routines.

The Good Old Days: Hunting, Gathering, and Getting Down (pre-10,000 BCE)

Once upon a time, our ancestors were lean, mean, hunting machines. They didn’t have gyms or personal trainers; their gym was the great outdoors, and their trainers were saber-tooth tigers. These folks were nomads, which is fancy speak for "professional wanderers." They’d roam around, chasing after animals and picking berries like it was their job (spoiler alert: it was). When they weren't out being all Bear Grylls, they were probably dancing around campfires or inventing new and exciting ways to avoid work.

The Downhill Slide: Farming and Couch Potatoes (10,000-8,000 BCE)

Then came the big idea: let’s stop chasing food and grow it instead. This brilliant plan, known as the Agricultural Revolution, was the beginning of the end for the fit and fabulous lifestyle. People started settling down, getting comfy, and trading their spears for shovels. It was like swapping a CrossFit challenge for a lifetime Netflix subscription. Sure, they had more food, but they also invented boredom and back pain.

Meanwhile, in Greece, they were all about the six-pack. The Greeks believed that looking good was as important as being smart, so they invented gymnastics and spent hours sculpting their bodies. It's like they were the original influencers.

Ancient Wisdom: Yogis, Greeks, and Other Fit Folks (2500-200 BCE)

While the rest of the world was busy getting lazy, some smart cookies were onto something. In India, for instance, they came up with YOGA – a system of poses and breathing that's basically meditation with a workout disguise. They figured out that bending yourself into a pretzel could be good for your body and soul.

Meanwhile, in Greece, they were all about the six-pack. The Greeks believed that looking good was as important as being smart, so they invented gymnastics and spent hours sculpting their bodies. It's like they were the original influencers.

The Persian Powerhouse and Confucius Cool (4000-250 BCE)

Let’s talk about the Persians for a sec. These guys were obsessed with fitness, but for a totally different reason: they wanted an army of super soldiers. So, they turned all their kids into tiny Spartans, training them from a young age to be fighting machines. It worked, too. They conquered half the world.

Over in China, Confucius was dropping wisdom bombs about health and happiness. He figured out that sitting around all day wasn’t great for you and suggested that Kung Fu should be for everyone, not just the military and religious folks. It was basically yoga for people who like to pretend they're fighting a dragon.

The Great Fitness Comeback (476-1400 CE)

After the Romans fell and things got a bit dark and medieval, people went back to basics. No more wine and cheese parties; it was back to hunting, gathering, and generally roughing it. So, while the Middle Ages might not sound glamorous, it was probably great for your abs.

And there you have it – a brief and extremely entertaining history of human fitness. Now, let's look at how we long jumped into the future.

From Courtiers to Combat: A Brief History of Pre-WWII Exercise

Before gym memberships and protein shakes, fitness was a mix of practical necessity, social status, and, let's be honest, a bit of vanity. From the elegant dance halls of Renaissance Italy to the trenches of the Great War, humans have been finding ways to break a sweat.

The Renaissance was a golden age for looking good, and that included looking fit. Courtly love demanded grace and agility, so nobles practiced fencing, dancing, and horseback riding. Think CrossFit, but with fancier clothes. Meanwhile, the peasants were busy huffing and puffing in the fields, building muscle mass the old-fashioned way: hard labor.

The Industrial Revolution brought a sedentary lifestyle to many, but it didn’t kill the fitness bug. The Victorian era saw a rise in health clubs and gymnastics. Women, confined to corsets and delicate pursuits, were often prescribed “Swedish drill” – a form of physical education that was more about posture than powerlifting. Men, on the other hand, were into heavy lifting and strongman competitions.

The late 19th and early 20th centuries were a hotbed of fitness experimentation. Physical culture, a movement that combined exercise with hygiene and nutrition, gained popularity. People were obsessed with bodybuilding, and strongmen like Sandow became celebrities. This was also the era of the first organized sports, from football to boxing.

Then came the two World Wars. Once again, survival became the focus and people were too busy to worry about much else. Post-war, there was a renewed focus on health and recreation. People wanted to escape the horrors of war and find solace in physical activity. This laid the groundwork for the fitness boom that would explode in the decades to follow.

The arrival of our current (Fitness) Information Age

From the post-war boom to the digital age, fitness has morphed more times than a Kardashian. Once a pursuit for the elite, it's now a global obsession, a blend of science, style, and sweat. We’ve gone from swinging kettlebells like cavemen to tapping away on our fitness trackers like futuristic space cadets. Let's dive into the different decades of our Information Age, full of wild workouts and wonder.

1950s

The 1950s were a weird and wonderful time for fitness. On the one hand, we had people like Lotte Berk, a woman so ahead of her time she named her exercises things like "peeing dog." She basically invented barre workouts before barre workouts were cool and turned her studio into a celebrity hotspot.

Then there was Jack LaLanne, the original fitness guru. He was like the Arnold Schwarzenegger of the '50s but with better hair and a penchant for crazy stunts. He invented exercise equipment, was a TV star, and basically paved the way for everyone from Richard Simmons to Jillian Michaels.

But it wasn't all sunshine and muscle-building. A study came out that basically said American kids were a bunch of wimps compared to their European counterparts. This caused a total panic, and the government was like, "Let's make everyone do push-ups!" So, thanks to that, we can blame the government for school gym classes.

And then there's the computer. This shiny new invention was supposed to make our lives easier, but it ended up turning us into couch potatoes. It’s like the universe was playing a cruel joke on us. People started getting fatter, and doctors realized that sitting on your butt all day was basically a death sentence.

And then there's the computer. This shiny new invention was supposed to make our lives easier, but it ended up turning us into couch potatoes. It’s like the universe was playing a cruel joke on us. People started getting fatter, and doctors realized that sitting on your butt all day was basically a death sentence.

1960s

The '60s were a decade of change, and the fitness world was no exception. It was the era when gyms started to look less like glorified garages and more like places you'd actually want to spend time.

First up, we have Bally Total Fitness, the original gym chain overachiever. These guys were the Kardashians of the fitness world, all about glitz, glamor, and long-term contracts. They basically invented the idea of signing your life away for a six-pack.

Then there’s Gold’s Gym, the bodybuilding bible. They figured out that franchising was the secret to world domination, and it worked. Now, you can find a Gold’s Gym practically anywhere, even if you have to climb a mountain to get there.

Next, we have Midtown Tennis, the tennis snob of the fitness world. They were like, "Hey, let's put tennis indoors because we're fancy." And people were like, "You genius!" This was the beginning of the mega-gym era.

For the ladies, Lucille Roberts was the hero. She realized that women didn’t want to lift weights next to a bunch of dudes, so she created a gym where they could feel comfortable. It was like the original female-friendly fitness space.

Dr. Kenneth H. Cooper was the fitness evangelist of the decade. He was basically telling everyone to get off their butts and go for a run. His book, "Aerobics," was the self-help book of its time, except instead of telling you how to find yourself, it told you how to find your heart rate (more on that later).

And let’s not forget about Jazzercise. It was basically aerobics with a disco beat. If you survived a Jazzercise class in the '70s, you deserved a medal.

Finally, we have the humble stability ball. It started life as a toy, but then smart people figured out it was actually amazing for your core. Who knew a big, bouncy ball could be so revolutionary?

1970s

The 70s: a time of bell-bottoms, platform shoes, and, surprisingly, the birth of modern fitness as we know it. Let's dive into the decade that traded disco balls for dumbbells.

First up, let's talk about the iron game. In 1970, a behemoth known as the Nautilus® Blue Monster arrived, looking like something out of a sci-fi flick. This machine, with its curvy bits and bobs, was the daddy of weight machines, and suddenly, everyone wanted to look like a superhero.

Fast forward to 1975, and we're introduced to the treadmill, but with a twist: it was a green, grassy monstrosity that probably made you feel like Bambi on ice.

Meanwhile, on the dance floor of fitness, we had Jackie Sorensen, the queen of aerobics. She took Dr. Cooper's boring exercise routine and turned it into a sweaty, joyful party. Thanks to her, leggings became a fashion statement, and everyone was doing the grapevine while burning calories.

Then there was Frank Shorter, the marathon man who made running cool. Before him, running was seen as something you only did when in trouble. But after his Olympic gold, suddenly, everyone was lacing up their sneakers and hitting the pavement. It was like a nationwide game of following the leader, but instead of Simon, it was Frank.

Let's not forget Richard Simmons, the Energizer Bunny of exercise. With his infectious enthusiasm and love of sequins, he convinced millions that sweating could be fun. His workouts were like a group therapy session with added jumping jacks.

1980s

The 80s were a decade when fitness went from a hobby to a lifestyle. And while some trends were questionable (as showcased in the John Travolta film Perfect), it's undeniable that the foundation for the modern fitness industry was laid in this neon-soaked era.

First up, we have the 24-hour gym. Yes, you read that right. In 1983, someone had the genius idea to open a gym that never closed. Cue the night owls and early birds rejoicing. This wasn't your grandma's gym; it was a temple of iron with more free weights than you could shake a stick at.

Then came Jane Fonda, the fitness queen of the decade. With leg warmers and a hugely popular range of VHS tapes, she spearheaded the start of the home workout. Millions of people were suddenly doing lunges in their living rooms, convinced they were about to look like a cover model.

Next, we have step aerobics, the exercise craze that made everyone feel like a clumsy dancer. Gin Miller, the mastermind behind this step-tacular invention, probably deserves a medal for turning something as simple as a milk crate into a fitness phenomenon.

Enter the fitness police: the American Council on Exercise, or ACE for short. Founded in 1985, they were like the grammar nerds of the fitness world, making sure everyone was lifting weights correctly and not hurting themselves.

Now, let's talk about the caveman diet. Yes, you heard that right. In the 80s, people started eating like our prehistoric ancestors, convinced that raw meat and berries were the secret to eternal youth. It was like the Paleo diet before it was cool but with less Instagram.

Then came Spinning, the exercise bike craze that made everyone feel like Lance Armstrong. People were pedaling like there was no tomorrow in dark rooms, fueled by loud music and questionable amounts of spandex.

And finally, personal trainers first became popular in the 80s. These fitness gurus promised to transform you into a Greek god or goddess. For a price, of course.

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1990s

The 90s: a decade that brought us everything from budget gyms to dance-fitness crazes. It was a time when fitness became fun, and everyone wanted to get in on the action.

First up, we have McFit, the gym that proved you didn't need a juice bar and a sauna to get fit. They stripped it back to basics – weights, cardio machines, and a whole lot of sweat. It was like IKEA, but for exercise. And boy, did it catch on. Suddenly, everyone was ditching the fancy gyms for no-frills fitness.

Next, we have SilverSneakers, the golden age of exercise for elders. Because who says getting old means getting slow? This program turned retirement homes into dance floors, proving that age is just a number (and that you can still kick butt in your golden years).

Then there's the arrival of the internet. While it was busy giving us cat videos and endless scrolling, it was also making us couch potatoes. It was the beginning of a love affair with technology that would eventually lead to us ordering pizza while on the treadmill.

Enter Tae Bo, the fitness craze that made everyone feel like a wannabe martial artist. Billy Blanks, the man behind the madness, convinced us all that we could kick and punch our way to a better body. It was like aerobics on steroids (but without the steroids).

Pilates, the exercise that made you look like a human pretzel, was also gaining popularity. It was like yoga for people who wanted to impress their friends with their core strength.

Curves became the gym that said, "Girl, we've got you covered." It was a women-only space with simple, effective workout routines. It was like a secret club for ladies who wanted to lift weights and lose weight without the intimidation factor.

The government even got involved in the fitness game with the Surgeon General's Report. It was like a stern parent telling us to eat our vegetables and go for a run. But hey, it worked.

And finally, we have Zumba, the dance party workout that made exercise fun again. It was like salsa dancing with your friends, except you were actually burning calories.

Oh, and let's not forget the elliptical machine, the exercise bike's less intense cousin. It promised a low-impact workout without the boredom, but let's be honest, nothing beats a good old-fashioned run.

2000s

The 2000s: the decade that made fitness less about vanity and more about longevity. It was the beginning of a new era where exercise wasn't just a chore but a crucial part of a healthy life.

First up, we have functional training, the exercise equivalent of adulting. It's like training for life but without the boring chores. Suddenly, squatting like you’re picking up a toddler became a workout. Who knew?

Then came the Exercise is Medicine initiative, which was basically your doctor telling you to hit the gym. It was like getting a prescription for sweat but without the side effects of feeling awesome.

And finally, we have the Physical Activity Guidelines for Americans. It gave us some pretty clear instructions on how much we should be moving our bodies. Turns out, sitting on the couch watching reality TV doesn't count.

From Primates to Powerlifters

So there you have it, a whirlwind tour through the history of human exertion.

From chasing woolly mammoths to jazzercise, fitness has always been a mix of survival, vanity, and sheer boredom relief. While we may have traded spears for spin bikes, the human desire to move and groove remains as strong as ever.

But let's be honest, we're still learning more and more about fitness all the time. So, keep moving, stay hydrated, and remember: if cavemen could do it, so can you.

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“Start 2025 With Something New”

2025 could be a winning year, if you want it to be!

2025 is well under way, we are already coming towards the end of Jan (soon be Christmas lol, had to be done). This year, month, week, day, hour and so on, are just so unpredictable, unless you have an insight into the future, it can only be determined by YOU!

You are the master of your fate, destiny and ultimately the goals you have set out for the entire year. Whatever you have planned in your mind, you need to follow those plans to the letter, many thoughts that rattle around in that mind of yours need to released, no matter how pointless you may think they are.

As we step into 2025, have you considered what it would mean to take control of your future by starting your own online business? The beginning of the year is the perfect time to embrace new opportunities and set the stage for a year filled with growth and success.

With the digital world expanding rapidly, there's never been a better time to explore the possibilities of online entrepreneurship. Whether you're looking to escape the 9-to-5 grind or seeking a new challenge, launching an online business can be the key to achieving the lifestyle you desire.

Why Start an Online Business?

Starting an online business offers numerous advantages:

Flexibility: Work from anywhere, anytime.
Scalability: Grow your business without the traditional constraints.
Low Startup Costs: Begin your journey with minimal financial investment.
Global Reach: Access a worldwide audience and customer base.
Launch You: Your Path to Success

Our Launch You Program is designed to equip you with the skills and knowledge needed to succeed in the online marketplace. With a focus on practical, actionable strategies, you'll learn how to:

  • Build a solid business foundation
  • Create compelling offers that attract customers
  • Implement effective marketing strategies
  • Scale your business for long-term success

Don't let 2025 be the year of "what if." Take the first step towards building the life you deserve. Join a community of like-minded individuals who are committed to making their dreams a reality.

Discover The Steps To Prepare, Launch & Grow Your Dream Online Business!

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Christmas & the New Year

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So, as a Christian nation our values are tested nearly every single day, what with the United Kingdom being called a Muti-National country, we have to uphold our dignity, our proud and our moral fortitude to accommodate all the other religions within this Great Britain of ours.

Christmas for us Brits, is like the last day of The Open, the FA Cup final or the Grand National, they only ever happen one day of the year and they are British through and through.

So when Christmas comes, we embrace it, we cherish it, we protect it and we celebrate it, because it is a Christian British value that requires it.

Christmas is all about family, waking up at stupid O'clock (if you have young kids), watching them open the masses of presents under the Christmas tree as you stand there with sleep in your eyes and a pre made cup of tea in your hands, saying "Wow, that looks awesome" or "Yes, don't worry, I'll put the batteries in later and we can go outside and try it" or better still "Let me get my coat on and I'll stand outside and watch you ride your new bike"

No matter what, Christmas is for the kids, it's the one time of the year we get to truly spoil them, some kids more than others, have probably had a tough year through circumstances that are beyond their control, yet the day comes and their worries and fears dilute, they embrace Christmas day as if it's the greatest day of the year.

Now, I'm only talking about my own experience over the years, spent watching my children grow older each passing year, the excitement on their faces as the descend the stairs, straight to the piles of gifts separated for each child. This year will be our 30th year and my wife and I still see the same response from our kids as if it were the very first year.

It would be a crying shame to see all of this, love, laughter and joy just disappear just because certain people within the UK do not agree with our values, standards and identity as Christians.

We get but one day of the year to celebrate Christmas, whereas other religion's in the UK get many days to celebrate their religious holiday, we accommodate their wishes and allow them to celebrate, yet, when Christians celebrate Christmas, part of our rich culture, we offend those that do not celebrate Christmas.

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New Year 2025 will soon be here, there has been quite a few changes to say the least. A new governing body is now in power, that plan to make changes for the better, however after only just over 4 month in power, they have gone against everything they said they would do.

The elderly have been let down, not once but twice, the heating allowance has been stopped and the WASPI woman have been lied to about their pensions, the budget was a total disaster, the working class are getting hit hard with taxes, the farmers Inheritance tax has been affected and the boats are still crossing the Channel.

The USA held their elections and Mr. DJ Trump came out on top, with a landslide victory, what has this to do with the UK? The US have always been our allies and now with talks of going back to the EU, the US will treat the UK with the same respect as the EU, tariffs will be put in place, leaving the working class tax payers to suffer high tax hikes.

I'm not too sure how 2025 is going to play, the new government as been classed as the worst governing body this country has seen since politics were formed, if the trend still continues we will be put back into the dark ages of the 1970's, with no growth and high inflation.

The Reform party are growing in strength, I think 2025 will be the year they actually take over the Labour party in members and popularity, this has got to be a good thing for the country, we cannot possibly go another 4 and bit years with this party and their agendas, they are destroying Great Britain, the people are not happy, something has to change.

What does 2025 hold for the rest of us, well I intend to join the Reform party for a start, I intend to concentrate more on my online business, create more content for my YouTube channel and build my websites to attract more costume. I also intend to work more on my golf to reduce my handicap, last year was good, I'm hoping 2025 will be better.

Whatever you all plan to do for 2025, I hope you all make a success in whatever endeavors you pursue.

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Golf lessons V’s YouTube video’s

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So, what do you do about this whole golfing lark?

You tell a friend or close relative that you want to take up the game of golf and the first thing they say is "Get some lessons".

You tell a friend or close relative that you want to take up the game of golf and the first thing they say is "Brilliant, you should check so and so out on YouTube"

Straight away you have conflict with yourself, even before you swing a club, let alone purchase any golfing equipment. Now golf, for anyone that plays this great game, will tell you it is by far one of, if not, the hardest game to master.

There have been but a handful of Professional players that have truly mastered the game of golf, after all this has been their life and their living, so if you happen to get the chance to ask them did they ever take golf lessons, I can guarantee the answer would be "Yes".

All the top Professionals that play the game, all have a personal coach or a teaching Pro, even though they do sometimes change from one coach to another if there is a certain issue with their game.

The advantages of having golf lessons with a qualified instructor are as follows:

  1. You will get one on one tuition from a qualified golf instructor, with instant feedback.
  2. You will be charged for that slot, this could range from different prices.
  3. The timed slot could last from a 30 to a 45 minute lesson or up to an hour.
  4. On course lessons can also be given.
  5. Video analysis can also be given to track your progress.
  6. The instructor can literally get hands on with the student, putting them in the correct position.
  7. The instructor can also give advice on golfing equipment, fitting and repairs.
  8. The instructor can also teach etiquette, sportsmanship, patience, rules, dress codes and anything golf related.

There are some disadvantages to taking lessons:

  1. When you first start out learning all there is to know about the game, lessons can work out quite expensive.
  2. It could take you quite a long time to just learn the basics of the game, again, expense is an issue.
  3. You need to find the right qualified instructor, that aligns with your goals.
  4. You need to be consistent with your lessons.
  5. Stick with the same instructor, switching could cause confusion.

The advantages of watching YouTube instructional video's:

  1. They are more often than not FREE.
  2. You can subscribe to any channel and get the latest video direct to your phone, tablet or laptop.
  3. You don't need to book a lesson.
  4. No travel cost, if you have a large garden and a net you can practice there.
  5. There's plenty of YouTube golf instructors on the platform, you can watch one or more.
  6. There is no time limit to watching the video's, play the video over and over.

There are however some disadvantages to YouTube golfing video's:

  1. There is no interaction between the instructor and the person watching the video.
  2. There is no physical contact, to correct any errors.
  3. You must have a Wi-Fi or internet connection.
  4. There's so many golfing tuition video's on the platform that some may conflict or confuse, if you let them.

My personal advice would be to seek out a top golf teaching Pro in your area. Yes, you are looking at spending your money for a service, but it would be money well spent, especially if you are just starting out and you're serious about the game.

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My life as a ‘Wife Of’

My life as an Army wife, by Jackie Thompson (ex 'wife of')

This was sixteen years of my life, where sacrifices were made and identity was lost for a while, as anyone married to a service person knows you become ‘wife of’ or ‘husband of’ the serving personnel.

1994 - Colchester, UK

I moved away from home to a Garrison town down south, my only reference for what life may be like in the military, was watching Soldier, Soldier on the TV as Robson and Jerome made it look so much fun!!!! Reality was interesting.

It is such a lonely existence especially when you have kids already and your new hubby is away on exercise, duty or tour.

I made one real friend in that time who I still talk to now but life consisted of school runs, housework, dinner then repeat. A lot of calls home to mum and just trying to adjust.

Hubby was established in Colchester and just expected me to crack on and get on with those around me, not really considering what a huge life shift it was, so many arguments, packing and unpacking while we figured it all out.

1996 - Northern Ireland

Ballykelly, Northern Ireland.

OMG, what a nightmare place north of Northern Ireland near Londonderry, living in a small village with a coal fire and nothing around for miles. If you tried to sell me this now I would say sounds perfect but back then was tough.

No support, just had to toughen up and get on with it as a mum of 3 this was no easy task but I was not the only one and some wives did form groups that helped to get us all through.

Biggest memory for me of this place was going shopping in Londonderry with some other ‘wives of’ and when at the checkout I spoke, my English accent was heard and I was spat on by the checkout girl, so needless to say did not go back there again, as it was not safe for us.

Lisburn, Northern Ireland next, complete contrast to Ballykelly. We were accepted here much more, however, security measures were tight. Having to check under the car before I used it to make sure there were no bombs underneath with a long mirror was quite sobering and avoiding areas of Belfast that were not safe for us. This was not an easy place for the oldest children they were bullied here which was not easy for them or us as parents.

Couldn’t find a job because of the kids and childcare, so I started taking in ironing from a local businessman who laundered clothes and had several women he would drop bags of clothes of to iron and would collect the next day. Kept that going for a few years 30-40 shirts hanging in my kitchen on a daily basis but bought in some extra pennies to help us out.

1999 - Canada

Ralston Village, Canada,

My favourite posting, so many firsts and so many amazing experiences for us all as a family. This was where my career started to get back on track, no more ironing for me. I was given a great opportunity to be the General Fund Fleet Clerk.

This job gave me so many skills that I grew and developed. I would be hiring out the minibuses, jet skis and lodge at Canmore to the soldiers and their families. I collected the money from all of the barracks laundry rooms counted and processed it.

I drove 15 seater minibuses to get serviced in the local town Medicine Hat which was about 48kms from our village, during all weather, my confidence grew and grew in my abilities and this was the job that made me realise that I could achieve more than I thought.

Just to add to Canada we travelled and experienced so much and all of us as a family learnt how to play Ice Hockey which was pretty amazing.

2001 - Germany

Rheindhalen, Germany.

This was a tough move we all wanted to stay in Canada but it wasn’t meant to be so off to Germany we went. My work experience from Canada assisted me greatly in securing my next position as ARRC Support Battalion Chief Clerk.

I was running the admin office alongside the military chief clerk to ensure all soldiers personal and financial details were accurate and communicating with soldiers and their families. Preparing documents for exercises and tours and ensuring that everything was in order for the soldiers.

Bergen Belsen, North Germany.

I managed to get a position here as the Information Communication Service (ICS) clerk. This job was based around all of the IT programs and infrastructure for 7 Armoured Brigade a Garrison of approximately 3,000 soldiers.

Here I developed my IT skills hugely, starting as clerical support I then became an administrator for the system and conducted training for soldiers on the new IT systems.

I assisted the ICS Manager with a project which completely changed over the current equipment, infrastructure and software to a new one, this was a huge project which I was really proud to be part of. This is where I realised that I could achieve anything I set my mind to.

Still at 7 Armoured Brigade I was offered the chance to be Hohne Garrison Chief Clerk, this was a great chance for me to manage the other clerical staff within the Garrison and add this valuable skill to my CV. I loved this job my team were exceptional and all ‘wives of’ just like me.

I was known across Hohne, Fallingbostel and Celle which is where the Garrison stretched over and was often at all of these sites on a regular basis for meetings, audits and communications with families and soldiers alike.

2011 - Return to UK

We moved back to UK for family reasons and my god was I in for a shock. I was so good at my job in Germany, so well thought of and I think to a degree I thought you know what anyone in the West Midlands will be lucky to have me with my skills, however, the reality was very different.

No one understood what I had been doing and for the most part all of my experience in different countries doing different jobs for the British Army was not really taken into consideration. I went for months, application after application, interview after interview, with nothing but rejection.

I felt so despondent and useless I started to doubt myself and my abilities and I couldn’t understand why no one would give me a chance to show what I was capable of.

Then the call came from REED recruitment asking if I would like to have a chat about an Office Manager position they had available in their Birmingham office, of course I was delighted and excited but also wary of it due to constant disappointments.

Two interviews later I was hired and was given everything I needed in a job that challenged me, I created the role and trained others around the country to be great Office Managers, I was so proud and I was pushed to keep growing and keep learning and I spent 10 years as the Office Manager until Covid hit.

I was given a secondment during this time by REED as an Employment Adviser helping long term unemployed back into work which was something different to anything I had ever done but was also challenging and rewarding.

After this unfortunately, my role was made redundant as an Office Manager so after 11 years it was time to move on from REED.

Next role iCare 24 – nothing to say here, they used me for my experience then cast aside.

I am hopefully now in my forever job as a Heads PA/ Office Manager for a SEN School. The job is amazing, challenges me everyday, there is nothing about this job that I don’t like and the students and staff are great.

Over the years as ‘wife of’ there are not many opportunities for work or a career and I consider myself to have been very lucky to secure the jobs I did which paved the way for my future.

So many husbands and wives have to put their lives and careers on hold to support their spouse who is serving and this is hugely overlooked in civvie street when there are gaps in the CV’s, remember there may not have been work available in the area they were stationed.

The life experience, resilience and determination are great qualities that most military spouses posses but unfortunately not many get the chance to show it. When people think about military they only consider the serving soldiers but the families that follow from country to country, sacrificing friendships, jobs and happiness to support their husband/wife/dad/mum are equally as important and sacrifice a lot too.

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Golf Life Lessons!

  1. Luck doesn't exist
  2. SLOW DOWN. Rediscover your joy
  3. You control what you think. Don't get stuck in your head
  4. Let go, There is another shot waiting for you
  5. Talent is a myth. Be consistent
  6. Practice self love
  7. Reflect often
  8. Practice makes permanent
  9. Breath
  10. Remember the positive "Cs:" clarity, commitment, confidence
  11. Release the negative "Cs:" compare, complain, criticize
  12. Take 100% responsibility
  13. You are AMAZING
  14. Play with your heart
  15. Trust the process
  16. Smile
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This is just an update as to where I am on my journey with Modern Wealthy, you will get to find out a little bit about my life, my passion, my struggle with money and a couple of tips and hints to follow, if you want to pursue building an online business with Modern Wealthy.

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Green Keeping – The Other Side of Golf – By Mr Jay Hanks

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Don't get me wrong I absolutely love being a Green Keeper and I love my job though my day usually starts off by my alarm going off at 03:30 and me thinking oh God here we go again, dragging myself out of bed and drinking copious amounts of coffee to get me through the day.

There's a couple misconceptions that I can't stand, one being you have a real easy job cutting grass all day sat on your backside, I wish! Another being you finish at 13:00 you part timer... We can't all have a cushty 9-5 job... Mum!! I'm only joking, my families very supportive before I get told off after she reads this.

I have actually never been hit by a golf ball until recently (everyone found it hilarious) besides me obviously and once I did my dad said are you finally going to write this blog for me and here I am, yea I guess you can't truly be a green keeper unless you've been hit by a golf ball so yes. Completed mate!

My favourite aspect of the job is no question, that would be an early summer morning, no one around, hearing the birds sing and see the sun rising. I feel very lucky to experience that as much as I have and no matter how many times I experience it I'm always in awe.

Now onto my least favourite aspect of the job, sorry people but that would definitely have to be golfers, ironic isn't it. Not all golfers don't get me wrong, though a lot can really treat you like you're a piece of dirt. On the other hand we had a member here at Wishaw drop off some biscuits for our hard work, that gesture is truly appreciated! I mean donations are welcome I'll accept cash, bank transfer or even check I don't mind.

Green keeping isn't solely about just cutting grass. We have to have a good knowledge of mechanics, science, construction, maths for calibrating chemicals, tree surgery, positioning new holes, mowing the tee boxes and replacing the tee markers, the list is endless and getting asked on the daily "is it going to rain today" we have to be a weatherman, like "erm yes you have a slight chance of rain today, average cloud cover, humidity is at 12%"

It is also a very stressful and dangerous job. On a serious note the suicide rate amongst green keepers is high. Dealing with machinery that could easily severely injure or kill us, threats from golf balls, I've lost count of the injuries I've had over the years doing this job, a broken foot, chopped some of my finger off, and the overall physical toll it's had on my body.

Now don't get me wrong, we mow a lot of grass, in the summer 25 degrees, I'm mowing fairways, earphones in blasting music, in my own little world it's near perfection but flip it to the winter when I'm digging out trenches for drainage, absolutely freezing cold, covered in mud, body killing and I'm seriously questioning my existence.

There's a old saying "you must be mad, to be a green keeper" I don't know any sane green keepers so that must be true.

I don't think green keeping is something you grow up wanting to do, it's a job you kind of fall into, that's certainly what happened to me. My dad was helping out at Calderfields GC and asked if I wanted to come help the team out, that was 13 years ago and the rest is history as they say. So thank you dad for offering me that opportunity and setting me on my way to a career I adore.

Anyway thanks for reading you trucking golfers! I hope this gives you a different perspective on us and appreciate the hard work we do to make the golf course the very best it can be for you to enjoy and not just someone that's in the way as you stand there hands on hips waiting to take your shot!

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Investing in yourself, top tips

Investing in yourself is one of the most rewarding and impactful decisions you can make. It involves dedicating time, effort, and resources to improve your skills, knowledge, and overall well-being. Here are some key areas and strategies for investing in yourself:

1. Education and Skill Development

Online Learning-Utilize platforms like Coursera, Udemy, or Khan Academy to learn new skills or deepen your knowledge in specific areas.

Workshops and Seminars - Attend industry-specific workshops, seminars, or conferences to stay updated with the latest trends and network with professionals.

2. Health and Wellness

Physical Health - Invest in a gym membership, regular exercise, and a balanced diet.

Mental Health - Practice mindfulness, meditation, or yoga. Seek therapy or counselling if needed to maintain mental well-being.

Sleep and Rest - Ensure you get adequate sleep and take breaks to avoid burnout.

3. Financial Literacy

Budgeting and Saving - Learn how to manage your finances effectively. Create a budget, save regularly, and invest wisely.

4. Personal Development

Reading - Read books, articles, and journals that inspire you and expand your knowledge.

Hobbies and Interests - Develop hobbies or interests that bring you joy and help you relax.

Goal Setting - Set short-term and long-term goals for personal and professional growth. Regularly review and adjust them as needed.

5. Professional Development

Networking - Build and maintain professional relationships. Join industry groups, attend networking events, and use platforms like LinkedIn.

Mentorship - Seek out mentors who can provide guidance and support in your career.

Skill Enhancement - Continuously improve your skills through training, certifications, or on-the-job learning.

6. Time Management

Prioritization - Learn to prioritize tasks based on their importance and urgency.

Productivity Tools - Utilize tools and apps that help manage your time efficiently, such as calendars and to-do lists.

Work-Life Balance - Strive to balance professional responsibilities with personal life to maintain overall well-being.

7. Relationships and Social Connections

Family and Friends - Invest time in building and maintaining strong relationships with family and friends.

Community Involvement - Participate in community service or volunteer work to give back and build a sense of belonging.

8. Self-Reflection and Mindfulness

Journaling - Keep a journal to reflect on your thoughts, goals, and progress.

Mindfulness Practices - Engage in practices like meditation or deep-breathing exercises to stay grounded and focused.

Feedback - Seek constructive feedback from others to gain insights into areas for improvement.

 

Investing in yourself is a continuous process that requires dedication and effort. By focusing on these key areas, you can enhance your personal and professional life, achieve your goals, and ultimately lead a more fulfilling and successful life. Remember, the best investment you can make is in yourself!

 

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